SLIGHTLY OFF THE
MARK
This week – being Valentine’s Week –
I must pay tribute to those who’ve fallen in love with questionable taste:
people who choose to be with the crazed, the obsessive, the workaholic, and the
occasionally moronic.
In other words, I’d like to pay
tribute to my fiancée.
We met on a writer’s website, one of
those places where geeks and nerds escape jocks, haters, yuppies, and the
establishment, otherwise known as real life. You couldn’t see who you were messaging
(which may explain why she fell for me), and based on my writing style she
originally thought I was female. I choose to take that as a compliment.
If
anyone there made a pass, it would be with such sexy lines as, “So … what are
you typing with?”
“A Mac.”
“Oooooohhhh…. Talk Apple to me.”
You’ve heard of the May-December romance? Ours
is an April-December romance. (March is illegal.) I no longer bother correcting
salespeople who call her my daughter, although I haven’t yet given in to the
urge to let them believe that for awhile, then start making out with her. These
are the things humor writers think are funny.
Because of our age difference I’m
very close to being on the same emotional level as she is, although she has me
beat on both overall maturity and intelligence. You might think she’s part of
my midlife crisis, but I’ve yet to buy a sports car or get hair plugs; and
she’s clearly not gold-digging, as my entire fortune consists of a collection
of wheat-head pennies and a Johnny West action figure (both in fair to poor
condition).
So it must be love. And in honor of
Valentine’s Day, that tribute to pink and chocolate, I’d like to tell everyone
just what I love about my Emily:
I love the fact that she doesn’t always
have to get girly: She can be up and ready to head out the door in twenty
minutes, no need for a bucket of makeup or a shelf full of powered devices that
look like they belong in a torture chamber.
I love the way she slaps me oh-so
gently on the back of the head whenever my verbal stream of consciousness gets
out of control.
I love the fact that she loves
knowledge, and that we can sit together and watch a PBS documentary without either
of us saying, “Huh? I don’t get it.”
I love the way she doesn’t seem to
mind when I break into song (at least, not when I do it in private); she just
smiles and turns up the stereo volume on her noise-cancelling headphones.
I love how all the sports channels
on TV could have gone off the air two years ago, and no one in the house would
notice.
I love how we can be walking on a
trail in the park one moment, and the next moment be climbing a brush-covered
hill that no one’s stepped foot in for decades, just to see what’s on the other
side.
I love how she tries to keep me
healthy just for my sake, but doesn’t stay mad for long when she catches me
cheating with a Snicker’s bar or Moose Tracks ice cream. When she asks for ice
cream herself, I know it’s time to tread carefully, because she’s having a bad
day.
I love how she encourages my writing
by throwing small household items at me until I sit down at the keyboard.
Although, really, I think she enjoys the throwing a bit too much.
I love how she taught me snakes have
personalities. Her snake is both cowardly and curious, and doesn’t like wearing
Santa hats.
I love how concerned she gets
whenever she hears a loud falling noise in the house and isn’t certain where I
am, and I love how good she is with first aid. On a related note, I love the
concerned look she gets whenever I open the tool box.
I love how she didn’t protest when I
headed to the roof to demolish my chimney, even after I accidentally smashed
the ladder. She knows I have my stubborn moments. Did I mention she’s good with
first aid?
I love how we both like the same TV
shows, and how we sit down together to devour our limited diet of science
fiction, fantasy, and silly sitcoms.
I love how she makes me put money in
the pun jar all the time, but doesn’t actually try to make me stop punning. We
should have vacation money saved up in no time.
I love how books are just as
important to her as they are to me – and how they’re usually the same books.
I love how she’s interested in
everything (except sports and politics).
I love how she calls me “Mustache”.
As nicknames go, it beats “Hey Stupid”.
If none of that is seems too
terribly romantic, well … what it is, is love. Romance is a great thing, but
it’s not sustainable; you can’t be romantic all the time. True love? That’s the
everyday items, the little things – the stuff they don’t write songs about.
And since I have her – I have it.
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